To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy. It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life.
To dream that you are performing oral sex on yourself represents your need for self-gratification.back to menu ↑
A primary association with anal sex is submission, either voluntary or forced submission.
Submission connects with authority, so by extension anal sex in a dream can relate to using, abusing, or challenging authority.
It’s associated with trust and willingness to try new things.
It’s associated with giving or receiving something special from a sex partner.
It’s associated with temptation and obsession.
Dreams start with your associations and build stories around them. So, for example, you could dream about having anal sex with a friend after putting a lot of trust in that person to do something right.
Forceful anal sex can symbolize controlling yourself, or a part of yourself, through domination or coercion. It’s one side of you dominating another part, vividly expressing the feeling of dominating or of being dominated. It sums up a “do it or else” scenario.
The same idea applies to situations in your life involving domination or coercion.
It can symbolize motivating yourself with fear, especially fear of embarrassment.
It can symbolize doing something that is forbidden, taboo, or perceived as dirty.
It’s associated with homosexuality and can be used in dreams to explore the subject.
Anal sex in a dream can be a way of enacting the phrase “take it up the ass.” It means you’re on the wrong end of a deal, or in a vulnerable position.
Another definition of the phrase means to take something seriously that is meant as a joke.
Your reaction to the scenario and feelings will guide you to which meaning of the symbolism is used in your dream.
If you have been thinking about anal sex and dream about it, you might be exploring the possibility in a safe environment. It’s a sort of dress rehearsal to determine whether you’d like it.
A wide variety of associations with anal sex can be used by dreams to create symbolism, even if you’ve never experienced it: safety, pleasure, giving and receiving, perceptions about morality, sexual demands, avoiding coitus, pleasing a partner.back to menu ↑
To dream that you are the opposite sex suggests that you need to incorporate certain qualities of the opposite sex. Ask yourself, how do you feel being a man or a woman? In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into your waking life.